Principles Of Collaborative Divorce Practice

It is not about positions, but about reaching the heart of the matter.
It is not simply about compromise; it is about the creation of value.
It is not about a game; it is about a journey.
It is not about what you have to do; it is about what you want to accomplish.
It is not about the past, but about the future.
It is not about coercion, it is about choice.
It is not just about feeling the pain; it is also about experiencing the gain.
It is not about control; but about understanding.
It is not simply about dividing assets and debts, but about building new relationships.
It is not just about what you know; it is also about how much you care.
It is not about retribution, but about resolution.
It is not about the control of feelings, but about feelings of control.
It is not about being nice; it is about being effective.
It is not about right and wrong, but about finding common ground.
It is not just about an agreement, but about transformation.